What to do!?

A friend of mine is 34. She wants 4 kids. And she’s desperately looking for someone to marry her and give her her babies!

She dated one guy for 5 years on and off. He cheated on her, took her money and refused to have babies.

So now a new guy, she’s been taking to him for 3 weeks!!!! And they’re getting married!!! He lives across the country and is 43! He’s been very controlling of her and he’s sterile.....but has money and says they’ll do in-vitro! But not for a few years after they’ve travelled. Soooo many red flags!!! And we’ve tried talking to her but she won’t listen.

What can I say to this girl!?!? This is a huge mistake!

@damaged she’s selling her house to move down there in a few months according to their plan! So won’t have a home to come back to!

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I know she’s a grown woman but I would hate for her to pack up and move for this guy when he promises her the world and she wastes even more of her time when she wants kids! By the time he said they can “try” she’ll be 37/38 and I don’t want her to waste precious time! Ughhhh! I hope she sees the light!!

@yvette they met once at a destination bachelor/bachelorette party. And she said he was a complete ass!!! That was 2 month prior to them texting!