I just recently got married to a guy I’ve been with since we were 13. We got married at 19 just this past December. I started working at the same restaurant as him same month we got married.

Obviously being new in a new city and new work place, I had a very welcoming vibe. I smiled at everyone, said hi to everyone, started up conversations.

But I noticed this one girl just being very off with me.

I didn’t really bother about it just taking under consideration that maybe she’s just socially awkward or very shy etc.

But I noticed she was very loud, obnoxious, silly, cracking jokes with everyone else ESPECIALLY my husband.

Although it was odd, I still continued to just brush it off.

I’ve worked there for about to be 3 months now and she now just gives me dirty looks, she doesn’t want to talk to me, she’s given me attitude etc. Everyone but her is very welcoming and nice to me.

She on the other hand is very stand offish.

For some reason doesn’t like me.

She’s just a year younger than I am.

So now at this point I’m like okay what the fuck.?

My husband and I get into arguments about her.

Whenever I tell him something about something she said or did to me, he gets in defensive mode.

He’s the type of guy who thinks everyone is good.

That no one is trying to be harmful to me or our relationship.

To me, If you’re going to befriend my husband you should befriend me too. We’re like the same person.

The other day at work he touched my hand and when he walked off, she walked the same way and was like “ew can you guys not do that?”

She hangs out with other people who are in relationships and we don’t act affectionate at work.

I’m just so bugged by this girl and at this point I’m so bugged that my husband defends her instead of just hearing me out.

He teases her at work, and calls her names. and he thinks that’s already being mean to her but she likes when he’s that way. Ugh. WHAT DO I DO??