Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. And the beggining was amazing, i have just gotton out of an emotionally abusive relationship. My boyfriend was there for me so much and helped me out a lot. Everyone talked about what a good kid he was and how he wouldnt never hurt me. How he was this perfect instant guy who wouldnt hurt a fly. the first 2 years were amazing. no one had ever treated me better.... But he started college... got into the wrong crowd and is so easily influenced. now we fight almost everyday. we use to never fight, we were best friends. now he smokes weed, parties, and drinks. Everything he made me stop doing. and now hes just living a double life and never tells me anything he does. Everytime i find out about something he never admits to it even with proof right in front of him. i love him to death but last night got really serious. his friend called him asking him if he was going somewhere and my boyfriend was trying to cover it up by saying "jumbalia right? we were suppose to get that right." and then his friend was like " no were you really that shot last night that you dont remember?" and i tried to take the phone from him and he grabbed my wrist so hard that he bruised it. Im not sure what to do at this point. i really need help. i feel like im going crazy:(