What do you do when hes in the mood but you aren't?

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I really feel bad turning him down but I am just not horny AND I am on my period.   His sex drive has been through the roof.   He wants it multiple times daily.  What do you do when your tired and just not horny but your partner cant keep their hands off you?  I feel like a bad fiance.

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Just say no. He'll live a week without sex. Don't let these weak ass men tell you they physically "need" it. Bunch of bs.

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Let him play with a titty while he jerks off

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Say no. You’re marrying the guy, set the boundaries now. It’s not all about sex and you have every right not to be in the mood. My bf might be bummed but never makes me feel bad, it’d be coercion if he did.

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I just say no.

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that never happens cuz I’m always in the mood, but I’d probably just say sorry not in the mood and he’d respect that and we’d move on with our day and carry on later in the day when I am in the mood.🤷‍♀️ Or is let him make me in the mood. It depends just how “not in the mood” I was I guess.

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When my bf is in the mood and I’m not I just tell him, he’s always very respectful about it and doesn’t pressure me or anything. Your partner should understand that you’re just not in the mood. If he gets upset or tries to pressure you, tell him that’s unacceptable and you need him to understand that your sex drive isn’t as high as his. He can masturbate or something if it’s that bad.

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Tell him no or you could give him lotion and that should get the point across

What do you do when hes in the mood but you aren't?

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