When I was with my last boyfriend we were at a party and I got quite drunk. A guy that really likes me was there. My boyfriend went out to get food and I passed out on the floor. The guy that liked me decided to get on top of me and kiss me. When he did that I woke up and instantly pulled away. When my boyfriend got back I told him and he FREAKED out. His friend (who wasn’t even at the party) told him that I instigated the kiss. I had also been sexually assaulted by a random guy at a party about a month beforehand and so my boyfriend said “that’s no coincidence, you were asking for it both times” and he broke up with me. When the sexual assault happened I was so scared and ran straight to him but he only sees it as I was cheating on him. Now he’s sleeping with my “best friend”.. so I don’t think I cheated but others seem to have a different opinion.. what do you girls think?

I haven’t thought about it until recently when I found out he and my friend were sleeping together and I’m becoming very self conscious and beginning to overthink everything..

Also, I told him about the kiss because I thought it would be better for him to hear it from me than the guy who did it because they hate each other, but it just kinda backfired on me..

Sorry for the long post, I just need to hear other people’s opinions ❤️