What was your cm like before bfp and your symptoms?

I’m currently 9dpo my cm has gone thick and white, I feel like AF has arrived but it hasn’t as I’m not due on for another week so I go and check and my underwear is pretty much soaked and I have like a thick white cm in my underwear, since 5dpo I’ve had shooting like pains in my lady parts which I’ve read up and it’s called lightening crotch, I’ve had constant lower backache and dull aches in my lower stomach, I’m dying to test but I don’t want to be disheartened by a bfn for testing to early. What was your cm like before your bfp and your symptoms??