Hi guys,

I have been going out with such an amazing guy for almost 4 years now.

Last year our sex life started to reduce due to him not being able to perform ( he’s 25)

This isn’t the case all the time, sometimes we can have sex and it’s amazing but other times it’s quite a mission to get there.

He says it’s because he’s so worried that he won’t make me feel good and puts too much pressure on himself.

It passed but now it’s back again and I don’t know how to help him.

I’ve told him he can talk to me and not to get embarrassed but also maybe he should seek some professional advice.

I’m always the one who tries to get him in the mood for sex or just fun.. he never does it back.

I absolutely love this man and I just want him to relax and know that he does make me feel good and he should just let go.

I had a google and it could be “ sexual anxiety” does anyone else’s partner have this?

And tips to help would be great!

Thank you