What's wrong with a taken man going to a strip club?

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comment if none fit your opinion. also advice on how to NOT let it bother you would be very appreciated. it feels hella disrespectful and I'd feel so cheated on, disgusting, and embarrassed as a gf...because the fact that she's a stripper wouldn't change anything? She's a person so is that not cheating?????

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I see it was disrespectful and a massive waste of money.

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I honestly just find it very sad and desperate. Like.. strippers are real women. So many women say they’d be okay with it but would they be okay if a women on the street came and rubbed up on their man? No. So let’s stop dehumanizing these women, but also recognize how sad it is that men need to validate their masculinity by disrespecting their partner.

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I wouldn’t see it as cheating but I would feel disrespected. First of all I used to dance & still know how to so if my man wants a show that bad he can go get a pole installed in our bedroom & have a show right here. He has no business out throwing OUR money at other bitches, don’t care. 🤷🏾‍♀️ He doesn’t go out of respect for me & because he says it’s awkward.

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I honestly see that as low key cheating? Cause I mean yeah its more disrespectful than anything and I wouldn’t be able to tolerate or accept my man going to a strip club, that’s just me. Cause like, he’d be going to watch other naked girls because he’d be attracted to them. He’d be actively taking time out of his day to go SPEND MONEY to watch other women naked dancing around and shit instead of just being home with his own girlfriend that could be doing the same thing for him. He would RATHER see THEM. That’s why I see it as low key cheating.

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Why go to a strip club if you could get a free lap dance and drinks at home. It’s all a respect thing.

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If it bothers you that’s fine. It doesn’t bother me

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Honestly, it makes me feel uneasy. My partner hasn’t been to a strip club in the 2.5 years we’ve been together but I know he will probably go to a strip club for his bucks party. I don’t like the idea of it, but I trust him not to do anything to cross the line. 
I was at a hens party this weekend and there was a stripper and a naked butler and it was fine. I figure if I can be in that situation without it being a problem, my partner can do the same. 
My issue would be if the strip club was a regular occurrence.

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I think if it’s not discussed and agreed upon it’s disrespectful. I never thought I would mind but I’m realizing now that I’m grown and in a serious relationship... I’m not interested in being “the cool gf” who lets her bf do whatever he pleases. I think I’d wanna go with him but idk if that would just end up making it worse lmao. Everyone’s different if it bothers to you talk to him

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I think it is very creepy.

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It's a respect thing, it's a I feel useless and ugly kind of thing, cheating if he touches her kind of thing

What's wrong with a taken man going to a strip club?

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