So my husband and I are working on our marriage. It’s getting better but we haven’t been intimate yet and honestly I need sex...like yesterday need sex. So I’ve been flirting with my husband a little but he’s not meeting me in the middle, in part I think because he’s not sure how to, i don’t know. So my question is, would you ever turn a woman down if she knocked on your bedroom door at night wearing ONLY a garter belt, thigh highs, and a freshly waxed Brazilian? I REALLY think we need to just have an anger bang to get all of this out and that will drastically help things. Is there ANY way you could turn that woman down? I just don’t want to put myself that far out there for him to be like “yea no I’m not ready for this” obviously that’s an option but that’s a bold move only for him to go “not tonight” suggestions? Advice?