I recently told my husband that I really want to be with women. That it's such a strong desire of mine. So he told me I needed to leave if I want to explore that and he wont be waiting for me. Or that I need to get rid of that whole part of me and not look or think about girls ever and that I need 100% of my attention on him. And that I need to rewrite my vows

Some history:

We haven't been having sex for a while, I took my wedding ring off one day and just couldn't bring my self to put it back on. He knew since we got married I was bisexual and was ok with it.

I know some are thinking if I want to be with a women then I should leave, but we have 2 kids and I do not want them to have a broken home. I feel so lost, just wanted to get this out. Thanks for reading