I was in the same boat as you last year. Ever since I was young, I knew I wanted to be with a girl and liked girls but I would date guys. I identified as bisexual for a while and finally decided to try to date women.

I also didn’t think I could be in a relationship with them, but I guess a large part of it was from only dating men and never being in a lesbian relationship.

Now that I’ve dated two girls, I don’t think I could date a man again and I don’t crave them sexually either like I used to. So, I’m thinking I might be gay and not bisexual. But I also don’t want to be all “I’m gay” and then date a dude.

Again though, sexuality is a spectrum and you can choose to identify yourself however you please, and you don’t have to be super out with it either. Like, you can just tell the people who you feel you need to tell what your label is and that’s it. You don’t have to make a big announcement.

Lesbian/Bisexual