Is it love or lust? Maybe I’m just confused??

Question

So, I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years coming up this May; we’ve known each other for 10 years as well. I love him, I do, but lately at my job this paramedic that keeps coming in with new patients for the past 2 months or so keeps flirting with me and I’m feeling some feelings. Not sure what to think here.. has anyone else gone through this before and have any advice??

Answer

Personally it doesn’t matter how attractive someone is, how flirty they are with me, I’m never gonna develop feelings for anyone other than my man. Sure they might be good looking or whatever, but no “feelings” are gonna develop. When you start to develop feelings for other people that’s usually a good sign that you’re losing feelings for the other person, and the fact that you posted asking seems like you’re kinda realizing this already but feel bad about it cause I’ve been there too :/

Is it love or lust? Maybe I’m just confused??

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