Hey ladies I need some opinions, reassurance, or even personal advice. I want to have kids with my fiancé some time in the future, without a doubt. But I have some concerns. I understand it's not super logical to go off of but I see these stories on movies, tv, even on this app, of how much your relationship with your partner changes after having kids.

I've heard in some circumstances that things get tense between partners, from all the work of raising a child to financial issues that can come with it. I'm scared it'll be one of those scenarios where the stress of kids becomes too much and my fiancé will leave me.

Then there's the change your body goes through. I think mom bods are amazing and powerful in every way, but what if he doesn't feel the same? What if my body changes, sex isn't as good/as often, or gets bored of me? What if he wants to be with someone with no ties and cheats on me? Main concern overall is him leaving me due to all the change/stress of kids. Have any of you experienced worries like these? What happened once you did have kids?