I’m pregnant with my first after years of TTC.

My husband and I have already had to cancel our gender reveal party due to family drama and no one wanting to come to us ( they expect us to travel for everything baby shower gender reveal my sisters wedding Christmas and we simply can’t afford that ) and now I have to cancel my baby shower too. My mum wants to throw my baby shower the same day and time as my sisters bridal shower.

1st. I’m not comfortable taking away from my sisters bridal shower.

2nd. It’s really not how I envisioned my baby shower.

3rd. I don’t think it’s fair to my sisters guest who don’t know me or my guest who don’t know my sister.

So why celebrate this pregnancy at all.

UPDATE : I get a lot of questions about how far away I live just over 12 hours away. I’ve been getting question on my family relationship and that verys I do love my mum but she’s crazy controlling and cancelling is also going to get me in trouble.