What to do?
Hubby and I have two children together. I want more children but he doesn't.
What do I do? Has anyone been in this situation? I wouldn't want to have a divorce for this reason, but is there a way to make someone want a child?
I don't want him to be unhappy, but if I have the wish for more children and don't feel complete, I'll be unhappy.
I respect and understand why he doesn't want any more children, but it doesn't change that I do want more.
Am I gonna get over it after some time?
Edit: please don't say I should just stop using protection. I'd never do that without his consent and also we use condoms. So he would have to know lol
Edit: we initially wanted to have 4 kids. But I had csections and even though I recovered nicely, it traumatized him a bit. He said he doesn't want to risk my life to have more children since we already have two healthy girls. And he also said that he doesn't want to have a third girl and since we can't choose the gender he rather just have the two girls that we got.
My doctor said that I'm good to have another baby in a bit. But he's still scared that something goes wrong.
So yeah, he changed his mind.
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