I really need an advice ladies....

My husband watches porn before and during sex.. almost everytime we have sex... ive told him already that i don’t like it before, but usually its the only way he can cum... (if hes watching porn) i feel just like an object.. i feel unattractive, unappreciated.... used.... unsexy.... (i gave birth 11 months ago) - I still have this pouch on my belly 😭😢 its just making me feel worse... hes so focused on porn too while hes having sex with me i feel like im not even there.... we’ve been married for 8 years and our son is so young... hes only a baby.... i don’t know what to do... I am not working at the moment so we are depending on him for now.... What should i do....