I have never ever been able to orgasm by someone else. My ex and I really tried to work on it he was really patient and always trying something new but I just could never do it. It made him sad cause he likes making the other person feel good. So now with the guy I'm seeing now it's the same thing. He said his main goal is to get me to finish and then he is satisfied which is usually great like I hear most guys dont do that. But I just can't do it it took so many years for me to be able to do it myself and even now it takes me about 40min to get there. So I have been faking my orgasm because I'm just tired of seeing them be disappointed and feel like it's their fault I can't get there because it's not. I enjoy everything else about being sexual and it all feels good I dont have to orgasm to be satisfied but they don't get it.