Does it really work?

I have never believed in long distance relationships. But now....I have a long distance "boyfriend". We met each other 11 years ago at university and hung out sometimes. He was my best friend's bestfriend. He didn't see me as anything before, thought I was immature I guess. I had a crush on him back then. We stopped having contact for a while. I left the country. After a while, he left the country too. He lives in Mexico. I live in the US. We got in contact again like 4 years ago and talked sporadically. Then he started calling me on the phone. We talked more and more frequent. He told me many times I was cute and I didn't really believed him until my best friend intervened. She told me he was being serious and I was like what? He asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend and I said yes. It's notable to mentioned past my late twenties and I've never had a relationship before. So I really don't understand how to do anything. He asks me for sexy pics and I kind of don't feel comfortable with my body. So I never send anything like that, instead, just general selfies of me. We never video call either. Is this strange? I'm kind of scared 9f a video call. Maybe can I have some advice? I feel like a teenager lol and I'm way passed that age.

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If you are nervous because of how you look then honey I’m here to tell you different... if he in genuinely here for you are your heart then he will not care about if your body is not ‘model ready’ he’s gonna love your different body because that belongs to him and he is thankful that he doesn’t have to share your amazing body with anyone else.. I understand not feeling pretty even when people tell me that I am.. but girlie you are beautiful and I know that because I know just by this text that you have a beautiful heart and that makes you beautiful inside and out!! He is lucky to have a smart girl like you.. video call him!! That’s your manz😂.. I know you are nervous of what he will think of you.. but if he actually likes/loves you then he will look at all your flaws as adorable