So my hubs and I went almost a month without sex. My drive has been too low lately and idk why, probably stress. Anyways we finally had sex and it was amazing but a little painful (yes we used lube which helped some). I went to the bathroom straight after and had a little bit of blood. Do you ladies have any tips on how to make it hurt less next time and any ideas of why I bled? He was gentle the whole time but I’m sure there’s another reason for bleeding and hurting.