Hubby sulks if he doesn't get sex regularly. Through this pregnancy I've bled, been sick and shattered. So not been up to much.

He doesn't want this baby despite it being very much a joint decision to try.

We have a 4 year old who is very attention intensive and has nightmares. So twice recently hubby has started something only to be interrupted. He's now in a foul mood saying our lives are ruined for years. Will barely speak to me. Which doesn't exactly put me in the mood.

He's not tactile unless it's for sex. Won't snuggle up just to be close. Won't talk much as he's always on his phone.

I get its more of a drive for him than me right now as I'm just feeling wiped out. I get that it's frustrating. But to be so mad he doesn't want our kids seems too much.

I tried settling 4y/o with TV but he keeps calling us. He doesn't sleep early and recently has started waking again with bad dreams.

Perspective? Advice?