I have children and never used a monitor with either even the basic camera ones. They were never far from me.

It's been suggested from family that we need one that monitors breathing ect and now this has me in a panic as I've heard would you forgive yourself ect... It wouldn't usually bother me once I've made a decision but call it hormones or just crazy baby brain it's making me doubt. Boyfriend is dead set in his mind against having one as we didn't with other children.