So, let me start by saying weed is ILLEGAL where I live. Like you’ll lose your job and go to jail for it. And cops are a lot more worried about weed where I live than actual dangerous drugs and violence.

My husband and his mother have always smoked it.... together since he was a teenager. I’ve never been around it. And I don’t want to be around anything illegal. (I don’t care how good it is for the body, it’s illegal and I want nothing to do with it). I made this known when we started talking. He said he didn’t do it anymore. We have been together for 5 years now. Got married and have a 1.5 year old. I found out a few months ago he lied to me for 5 years and he still does it. And his mom and all his friends do it with him and no one ever let me know anything. I do not want it around my baby, in my house, or anywhere near us because it’s ILLEGAL and I don’t want to get my child taken away or me be arrested if it’s found in our possession. Plus I don’t want my child growing up to think doing illegal things, or even smoking in general is ok.

I’ve recently found out my husband has been smoking while my child is in his care. Driving after getting high, leaving my baby in the car for 5 minutes to go take a hit, and his mother is still doing it with him and giving it to him even when I specifically told her I don’t want that shit around my baby or while my baby is in their care. Do what you want in your free time, but NOT WHILE MY BABY IS IN YOUR CARE.

I’m sick of being disrespected and lied to by BOTH of them. And all I’m asking is dont have it on my property and don’t do it while you have my child. I already told my husband me and the baby would be gone if he got fired from his really good job for failing a drug test. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Am I wrong for being pissed off?? Like what do I do??? 😩

***AGAIN THIS IS NOT ABOUT HOW “okay and great for the body” WEED IS, ITS THE FACT ITS ILLEGAL.

UPDATE: I found his stash at my house this morning and hid it. He called me at work and told me my wishes were stupid and he was trying to find it so he could get high while watching my baby. I’m at the point I want to call the police on him and leave. 😔