Had sex with him,with a condom,then after I started my period I told him,at least I'm not pregnant he didn't say any just smiled and it was sort of dark then I noticed after we had sex he never opened the condom. How do,I know if this guy is abusive or not ?? I just got out of a abusive marriage 10 months ago it was very hard . I'm thankful I'm,alive and for everything. He doesn't text me often he did tell me his texts are a lengthy wait. And he said he would come back for sure to see me he never did ?.I don't know what to think or do ? He is nice and amazing in bed and intelligent, very handsome. Just don't want to fall,in,a abusive relationship again?he said he really likes me .