so my husband and i we’re slowly collecting baby items way before i got pregnant while we were trying which put us ahead obviously, then a family and friends gave me SO many items as there babies just grew out of them.

i’m currently 6 months and we short of have everything we need minus a few random things and our families are getting upset bc we “aren’t leaving anything for them to buy”?

also my grand mother is getting upset bc she keeps sending me links to second hand things and current items i don’t want second hand.

am i being rude or extra ?