Convincing husband if we should move out or not

I’m having major anxiety before our first baby comes (due in early May) and I’m in full nesting mode. But my husband and I last year decided to save money so we’ve been living with his family of 8...there’s 4 bedrooms and every room is being shared with more than 1 person. We took over a small room that already has a ton of his family’s belongings in there and barely fit our stuff in the closet and drawers that was provided for us. Thinking about trying to squeeze in our baby’s stuff is kinda becoming a nightmare.

We wanted to save up to buy a home, but I don’t know how much longer that will take. It could be another few years. We have a good amount saved now for an apartment, so I’m wondering if it’s worth it to just rent in the mean time. My husband would love to to move out but he says a home is worth the money than renting and we just have to deal with the small space. I understand his view on this and I agree to an extent....I just want to convince to him that maybe an apartment would be better for us and his family.

I love his family but I feel bad we have taken over the house (the two of us, our baby, and a dog). My husband and I love the idea of our baby growing up with his family around but at the same time it’s just too small and over whelming for us. And I could imagine maybe others in the house too? I could be wrong.

What would you guys do in my situation?