My husband and I have had the baby talk. He’s always said he wants to wait until our debt is paid off (with the exception of our house, vehicles, and student loans-we would never have a kid at that rate).

He ALWAYS pulls out, which isn’t the most foolproof method, but he always does. And I’m on the pill.

Last week, his dad decided to give us money to help pay off our credit card debt and it would be deposited Monday (yesterday).

Well, Sunday (3/3), we had sex before bed. It was more amazing than usual. And he didn’t pull out. He didn’t give me any warning that’s what he was doing, he just did it.

Do you think that is his way of saying he’s ready to start trying for a baby? I don’t want to say anything and get him second guessing timing because I’m ready for a baby when he is.

Should I ask if that’s what he wants soon, or should I wait to see if he does it again before asking?