Sex before 6 weeks pp

Mariah • Nerd. MCU <3

Okay okay...

So I know. I know they say not to have sex for 6 weeks pp. I get that. I do. But. When your husband is working his moves and magic around 5 weeks pp...and you're not hurting or bleeding anymore...well..... I gave in 😭.

So. He doesn't have weak pull out game. We went almost two years with no pregnancies and only using the pull out method.

Both pregnancies were planned. But, with my first after birth I took the depo immediately.

This go round, I wanted to get the mirena. So I was trying to abstain from sex for the whole 6 weeks.... But. Didn't work out. ANYWAY I AM exclusively breastfeeding. But she's not on a schedule or anything . She eats when she's hungry... She likes to eat ALOT and then sleep a long time... Wake up, eat lot, sleep. But the alot is all in one sitting. Idk. I'm nervous...

I'm supposed to get the mirena tomorrow but I just went to the bathroom and I'm bleeding. Not a ton. But it's red. Like. Not pink. Not dark red. It's red. Like fresh. So im trying to figure out if this is pp spotting or if it's implantation spotting??

It's been about a week since we had sex...

Thoughts? Likelihood? Guesses? Advice?