O Day= D Day

I'm lost. Me and my husband haven't been trying for very long but the times that we've tried now, he's absolutely avoided my ovulation day. It's something different each time. We'll have sex every other day leading up but then he'll just drop off. It makes me feel like I made it a chore or that I'm using him but I made sure to communicate everything with him for the planning. He told me the day before that he was depressed and wanted to quit his job (being the breadwinner in the family) and I freaked because I knew we couldn't bring a child into the world unprepared. Now we are on an expensive trip, set the mood and he says he just didn't feel like it. I just don't think he actually wants kids and honestly after thinking about it, I'm indifferent; he's bi sexual and never experienced a male partner so I just wonder. I'm just insulted because I became emotionally invested and began planning, <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android">tracking ovulation</a> and the other works... Just to be told "I don't want to" on our ovulation day. Am I crazy?