Ladies give me some help:
My boyfriend comes home at 1:30am and starts complaining about the basement being messy. I am 12 weeks pregnant and tired and throw up and dont have an appetite. Everything I eat either makes me nauseous or throw up. on top of that I work 5 days a week being a dog groomer(I average 5 to 8 dogs a day..depending on what kind it is) And to top it off I have a 5 year old daughter. I bring her to daycare in the morning before I go to work and then after work I pick her up.
Now my bf just started second shift from 4-12:30 am and has been doing that for a week. Before that I would come home from work and he would feed my daughter and hangout with her till bed. While I pretty much just went to bed.(super helpful). However I was hoping I'd start feeling better but I've been feeling worse. And now that he isnt here I have to do it all. Which okay I'm doing the best I can. I am exhausted and the last thing I want to hear is him complaining about the toys and whatever mess is downstairs. I told him that he can clean up and fold the laundry(which hasn't been folded in a week now) when he has all his free time in the morning. I was soo upset! I just want to cry. He doesnt seem to realize how shitty it is to be pregnant work and take care of a 5 year old. Being pregnant is soo hard. I cant wait to feel better. He gets to keep his life the same while I build this baby and watch my world change yet again. He gets to workout and do whatever he wants.smh. I can bearly open my eyes on the morning and force myself out of bed. Only to throw up when I go to the bathroom. I want him to see how much I do. Okay rant over. Ladies who else has been feeling terrible and what advice can you give this man??
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.