My husband frustrated me earlier. My baby boy "wiggles" was cluster feeding last night and this morning. Which means mommy was very tired today and back and neck hurt from falling asleep at a weird sitting up angle.

When wiggles started acting like he may be hungry again, I just half hearted laughed, sighed and said "mommy is not a buffet."

To which my husband said "we can just switch to formula." Wait, what? (He's breastfed and breastmilk only) "If you don't want to feed him we can just switch." Why would we do that? I'm just tired, and there is breastmilk in the fridge. Why would we give him formula??? "Well, you just said you're not a buffet. So you must not want to anymore." I had to keep myself from crying. I picked him up, and I fed him.

Later, my husband was encouraging me to go to the gym but I had to feed wiggles before I left since there was only a 3 oz bottle in the fridge, and 2 more 3 oz in the freezer. I knew he would need at least the fridge one while I was gone, so I should feed him before I go. Husband gave me grief about making wiggles wait a few minutes while I set up a project for our 6 yr old. He wasn't crying or anything, just starting to nom on his hands a little. I walked in and he was starting to fuss when he saw me. Yep, he also needed a diaper change which daddy missed.

Wiggles has been breastfed or given breastmilk in a bottle for 11 weeks. I don't have an oversupply, and there are never more than a handful of breastmilk packages in the freezer at a time. But I'm trying damn it.

Note: My husband is actually a great partner and dad. I think he was just tired too