I now understand...

Why some are against their other half watching porn. Both me and my husband watch porn. I find it normal and healthy, especially since my husband is in the military and we are often apart. When we first got married and moved in together, I asked him to come to me first if he needed attention. He agreed 100%. Well, the last few days I've been in a weird mood where I'm really irritable really quickly, and it made moments between us kinda tense. And this morning I go into the bathroom to get my makeup and I see him jacking off in the shower through the glass door, so concentrated on his phone that he doesn't notice me. My first thought was "He didn't even give me a chance..." I thought he was choosing porn over me. When he got out, he knew something was off with me so we talked about it, and for some reason at first he denied doing it which caused me to feel like I'm crazy and seeing things (the last 2 weeks have been nothing but stressful), but he apologized for trying to lie about it and going against what we initially talked about. It just hurt 😣