Obgyn

So I have some complex health issues with a nerve condition that is not the most common to see in for pregnancy. I had a specialist OBGYN at the beginning due to my infertility treatments but switched to a normal OBGYN once I was pregnant due to convince of location and we just moved.

Our first appointment with her our new OBGYN was cold. Felt as though she was rushing us out and didn't want to answer any of our questions. Also she had no experience with anyone with my condition. Totally expected. Just not expected on her attitude. Husband didn't mind.

Over the next two appointments she somewhat rushed me out and always seemed to not care. I spend a lot of time with doctors trust me I really don't like to waste time in offices so I get not making small talk but she always seemed to brush off any of my concerns. For instance I have been cramping bad since day one and she has never explained why or what it's called just says "it's normal." It doesn't put me at ease.

I've expressed my concern about thirst and how excessive it was. Was concerned about gestational diabetes. She took 3 weeks to get me into the diabetes clinic from my first complaint. I was so sick. Now she refuses insulin due to my carbohydrates intake being too low. Yet when I eat them I get sick.

I've been at my wits end. She called on Friday and told me I was being non compliant. I explained I would comply if we could get my glucose levels under control before increasing carbs more. I have had uncontrolled glucose levels with a strict diet for over 9 weeks now. She told me I don't have to do what she says.

I have an appointment with her today and it makes me so nervous. I wish I never switched to her have never had a doctor with such bad bedside manner. Also one that I feel like is ignoring my concerns. I am not sure if I have just been lucky before is this common for OBGYN's do any of you dislike your doctors or completely get anxiety going there?