Hey <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a>,

I’m kinda in a pickle,

I recently broke off my engagement.

And it sucks.

But here are the reasons.

1. He had a temper issue (he was yelling and cursing at the kids when they were being difficult) they’re 3 and 1.

2. I was paying all of the bills and he makes more money than I do (I didn’t mind because he said he was paying off his credit cards and so on) but he has collectors mailing him all the time.

3. He blamed everyone else for his problems instead of taking responsibility for his actions.

4. He never stayed home to help me, it honestly felt like he’d rather be anywhere but home.

I’m honestly a mess, I’ve been with him since I was 16/17 and really never dated and never been alone. Now I am 25 and I feel like I am starting over. Now with two babies on my hips.

He wants to do couples therapy and he says he’s going to do anger management. He wants me to talk to a doctor so I can go to therapy because obviously I have my own issues (depression).

I’m obviously not 100% innocent. I have faults too and I can accept that.

I don’t know if I’m asking for advice or if I just need to vent...

Thank you for taking your time and reading this.i