So glad I dodged this huge bullet 😅
So y’all I was “dating” (turns out I was the side piece) this guy for almost 3 years. Two and half years into it I found out that I was just the side piece. I should have left then and know what I did was wrong but I stuck around waiting and thinking he would leave her for me. He kept telling that he wanted to marry me, have kids with me, and wanted me to move with him. It even got to a point where he told me he was no longer with his gf and that he was planning on me following him to where he planned on moving. Long story short I went to visit him in February and found out that he was lying which I knew and that was part of why I came down to see for sure. We got into a fight and he told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore and I said the same. I tried moving on with life and opened my Instagram last night and saw that his gf had posted that she was in fact moving with him. And come to find out not only that but he asked her to marry him. Now the worst thing about this is the fact that he was begging me to send nudes and begging me to allow him to come and visit me just a couple days ago yet this girl think he’s the perfect man. Yeah, far from it. I would reach out to her and tell him but I tried that with her before and for some reason she thought she should call the police on me so oh well 🤷♀️. Karma is a bad bitch. It may be bad to say but I hope she comes around fucks him up.
I said I hope karma fucks HIM up... Some of y’all need to learn how to read. I never once said that I wished karma on her because I don’t. But the fact that she’s had multiple people not just me come and tell her that he was cheating and she still takes his word over others shows how this will likely end for her.
I never “heavily edited” this post so I don’t know where some of y’all are getting that from. Reading back I see where it may seem as if I was wishing karma on her but that is far from the truth. I hope she opens her eyes realizes that he isn’t shit and will never be. I know what I did was very wrong, it was like he had me in a bubble and he’s very manipulative. Every time I tried to walk away he told me something I wanted to hear so that I would stay.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.