Family judgement 😪

I know I tend to have a very opinionated and judgey family. I try to ignore it but it’s so hard when everything is constantly talked about/shot down. I don’t even bring subjects up to avoid having a conversation about it, which just turns into me being talked to.

I’ve been thinking of being a SAHM, my aunt keeps asking my plans and hints how I should stay working. My stepdad says I “can’t quit my job” and should stay working. Mind you, my parents rely on their parents for money pretty frequently. I moved out and bought a house at 23, never have I asked anyone for money. I’m also married and have been for a few years.

I’ve been thinking of breastfeeding, or at the very least pumping. My mom

makes comments how she can’t see me doing that because I get frustrated too easily. She formula fed my sisters and I from the start. Then my stepdad made a comment today how my mom said “doesn’t she realize it won’t save her that much money and it’ll hurt”

The list goes on and on.

How does everyone else deal with judgey family 😪