Please tell me I’m not alone and this is normal sometimes! My SO is almost 38 and we are trying for our rainbow. We tell each other everything and I think I’m adding to the pressure on him because I’m always like “we have to have sex this day, this day and this day.” or “I’m at peak so we have to have sex”. Things like that. It’s taking the fun and spontaneity out of it and he’s having trouble “finishing”. Like this month I reached peak a week and half early and we weren’t expecting it so I was on him to have sex and put tons of pressure on him. The day before yesterday he couldn’t get off, last night he did (when I was at peak) but today he couldn’t finish again! I try not to get upset but I do! I’m trying so hard and I then he can’t do the one thing I need him to! Am I alone? This has never happened to us before and he says it’s because he is worrying about it to much and over thinking. Just need support and encouragement.