Should I stay with him?
Hi girls
I’ve recently moved 300 miles away to be with my boyfriend away from all my family and friends and I’m not happy.
We argue every week about various things.
I know men are notorious for being big kids, messy and lazy but I actually can not cope!! I’m out the house 12hrs a day, he works from home. He uses like 7282927 cups and plates a day, I find myself taking an hour to clean up after him every night - making the bed, cleaning the bathroom sink and toilet, washing the dishes, picking up the wrappers and rubbish and I don’t even get a thank you 🙄
I’ve been really ill with a cold, I blitz the house and I asked him to hang the washing out and he point blank said no and ignored me for the rest of the afternoon.
I am a modem day women and I expect him to treat me like it, not a maid or a cleaner. We both live in this house and be both make mess so why am I only one cleaning it and being considerate to his space?!
Andddddd, there’s no manners, no thank you, or even “oh the room smells fresh today” he just comes in with his smelly ass socks, lies around all day while I graft my ass off! Don’t get me wrong if he complemented me just one, ONE time I’d be more than happy, but he moans I’m breathing to loud or making to much noise or making him move his feet so I can vacuum at the wrong time! I literally do everything for him and us, and make sure we live in nice clean house but he doesn’t even want to go out with me on weekends, or do anything I want to do like 30 min walk along the beach, go grab breakfast. I’ve given up everything to be with him and I do everything for him but I get 0% back. I’m sick of his shit and It’s only been 3 months!!
I’m not the only one am I?? Surly??
Sorry for the rant gals I feel better now but comments and opinions please 😂😂 I don’t care how blunt
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