I feel like I’m trying too hard

Sarah • Mom of one :)

My boyfriend and I have been trying to get pregnant for about four months now and I just feel like possibly I’m trying to hard. Or I’m thinking about it too hard. Because with my first one we weren’t really trying and had her. And I thought in my head that I can get pregnant super easy. And now I feel like I’m trying everything and I cannot get pregnant. Any advice on something that helped y’all?