The rudest encounter ever

So today I’m at my OB office waiting for my appointment. I’m 26 weeks, but you can’t really tell I’m pregnant yet especially when I’m sitting down. This lady is talking to me and we get to have a conversation. She asks how long I’ve been at that OB for and I said three years. She just acts surprised and says I looked very young to which I just nodded and smiled. She then asks what I’m there for and I tell her I’m pregnant. She immediately starts asking a bajillion questions starting with how far along I am and my age. I tell her I’m 19, and she says that’s too young to have a baby. I tell her this isn’t my first and she acts more appalled, and then in an angry voice she makes a remark how she can’t believe reckless teenagers are getting pregnant without trying while she is nearly 40, has been trying for years and can’t get pregnant . I couldn’t believe that a stranger would say such things to me. I was there alone and almost went off on her if it wasn’t for the fact that I was called in after.

The audacity some people have. I don’t care how old you are or how long you’ve been trying to conceive. No one has the right to act that rudely to a complete stranger. Her struggles don’t give her the right to act like a bitch, so no I will not make excuses for her based on her infertility. She doesn’t know the way she made me feel or how close I wanted to cry. So anyone who tries to excuse her for her infertility can just save their comments. Sorry I just needed to rant. I hope I never run into her again