Baby sleep

I’m going absolutely crazy. I have such horrible anxiety at night because I never know when my baby is going to sleep. I have tried every tip and I just can’t seem to get her in a good routine. She has a night time routine but it doesn’t seem to work. She’s 2 months old and parts of me feels like it’s just her age but then I hear of all these other people’s babies that good to bed just fine. I don’t mind her waking up multiple times. I just want her to have a health my sleep/ nap schedule. She’s a poor napper too... staying asleep maybe 20 to 45 minutes max.

Sometimes she will go to be just fine at 8 pm, other nights it’s 2 am. It’s a constant battle and I want to just drop her off somewhere where someone knows what they’re doing. I feel some incompetent and poor baby can probably sense it.