How to heal

My bf and I haven’t been clicking lately. Our relationship has been through a lot. He was a little controlling and he cheated. He was remorseful so we decided our relationship was worth working on. We live together so we’re used to hanging out together a lot. But lately he’s been wanting to hang out with his friends more, and of course I don’t say no. I don’t want to be that girl. But we haven’t been clicking lately and, it just seems like we’re kind of distant. I feel pretty heartbroken because of it. I used to be super independent before we met. I used to love being alone. But now, this is my new normal, being with him. What are some things I can do to help myself just heal and feel more at peace with myself.

Be nice, I’m really sensitive rn lol.

Thanks ladies