All three of us do taekwondo together (that’s how I met my man)... His ex is a third degree and I’m going for my first in April.

She dumped my boyfriend because he was boring about a year before we got together. April 13, we will have been together for a year.

I don’t hate a lot of people, but I hate her. I came from a different taekwondo school before I went to the one I’m at right now, so I learned things differently. Every time I need help or am corrected she laughs at me. I went from disliking her to hating her when she felt comfortable enough with my boyfriend to talk shit about me and tell him how big of a bitch I was during class. We’re the same size, so we’re put together for sparring. I don’t beat on her or kick her hard just because I can, though. I try to forget she’s who she is. I got a good head kick on her last time we sparred and she started crying and claimed I kicked her throat. I KNOW I kicked her headgear. She also likes to copy my board break routines at tourneys. She tried to copy my 360 round last tourney and she “broke her toes” because she can’t even do the kick right.

Today in the locker room, she was like “I don’t know why Noah doesn’t talk to me anymore. He only talks to me when the instructor tells him to.” I was SO CLOSE to saying “honey, there’s no reason for him to talk to a bitch like you.” But I didn’t want to start shit.

I trust my boyfriend 100000% and ik he’s not going to do anything but still, she needs to not. It’s just getting really annoying. She’s 17. She needs to stop acting like a 10 year old.

She annoys the shit out of me and I don’t know how to make her back the fuck up without ending up in a big mess.