My ex cheated on me, multiple times, but because he didnt sleep with anyone, he thinks it’s not classed as cheating. Therefore, me leaving him has lead to multiple guilt trips and arguments. He won’t accept that I don’t want someone who treats me this way. And his response is “thanks for ruining my only chance at a family”, when he actually got his ex pregnant twice, but they decided to abort... so I don’t see how it’s my fault he can’t have a family? Especially when he is the reason I’m leaving!!

EDIT:

Before I get comments about how he cheated without sleeping with people, it included sexting - messaging his ex, asking to meet for ‘old time sakes’, sending half naked pictures, saying she looked hot. Turning up at her house. Messaging a woman on a fetish website. All these horrible things. So please - NO NASTINESS!!