Puffy vagina at 36 weeks?!

Okay so I just attempted to shave for the first time in months by putting a mirror in front of me on the floor using coconut oil and holy cow my vagina looks swollen and as I began to touch it, it felt hard as if her head was just chillin down there. It almost looks as if I’m dilated a little bit too. It’s a bit tender lol. Is this normal around this time? I almost thought about going to the hospital last night too because my Braxton Hicks were so painful and frequent that I couldn’t sleep for a good hour or two. Eventually went away but omg 😩someone please tell me I’m not alone. I’ve already been told she’s head down and I check for dilation at my appointment tomorrow. I’ve had slight complications so I have to have a ultrasound at every appointment up until she’s born 🙄I’ll be 37 weeks Monday, could baby be coming soon?