Blames me for getting pregnant

My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 2. We bought our house and then got married. We both work full time. We have a great relationship but we do argue more than i would like. He doesn’t know how to communicate and most time he makes me feel like my voice and concerns don’t matter.

I’m in my second trimester with our first baby and for the past 2 weeks we’ve been arguing a lot. He always points figures at me. If I come with a concern or I’m hurt by what he said he’ll said oh BUT YOU SAY this to me and won’t let me speak.

Last night we got into a huge fight and he basically said all his troubles and worries are because of me, I don’t help with anything and that I planned this baby by myself and literally told him oh I’m ovulating this week let’s have a baby. This is absolutely not true. We’ve discussed when we wanted to plan having kids since last summer it’s not my fault he doesn’t listen or communicate his emotions. Now I’m upset and told him I don’t need him to pay for anything that comes to me and the baby.

How can I resolve this with him ? At this point I’m tired and done. He doesn’t want to see a therapist or a marriage counselor. I don’t know what to do.