I’m posting anonymously honestly because I’m embarrassed.

When we first planned this baby #3 finances were fine, we could afford it and still live comfortably. However things have all of a sudden turned for the worst and now it’s not all that easy 😔. I’m 18 nearly 19 weeks and I’m really struggling to see the light at the end of the tunnel. My husband is depressed about not having tons of spare money to do what we want with and it’s really dragging me down. I was brought up without the latest stuff so to me if bills are paid and everyone’s fed it’s okay. He’s the opposite however he says that’s not living. I understand that but I’m just trying my best with the situation we’re in. Anyone else been through financial worries all of a sudden when pregnant? I’m almost half way through and wondering how we’re going to do this. I feel like it’s stopping me getting a connection to my baby 😭