Should I call her out? Or is it too much

So I have these two friends who were dating and broke up.

She said she broke up with him bc she was growing and he wasnt.

He wanted her back, but she insists he hasnt grown and hes trash now

Like it's not my business to tell either of them what to do, but now that I'm reflecting I can tell she was just using him. He would buy her everything and drive her everywhere! She literally wanted him around 24/7 and would get mad when he didnt show up.

And so now he feels bad bc he dropped out of school to be with her. But I am really sympathizing with him rn bc how could he grow if he was just trying to cater to her! He couldnt even have like a stable retail or food service job bc of her. He always had to work strange night shifts at random places to make money.

Like I talked to both of them but since I'm closer to her I feel like I should really tell her that's shes dead fucking wrong??? But also??? It's not my place? And she seems to be doing fine meanwhile when I saw him the other day he was terrible.

Also, I do not like this boy, I have a man of my own. I just really dont like how she thinks it's his fault and shes blameless.