About a month after I had our daughter(who will be 7 months soon),my husband told me they got a new HR person. Said she was an old lady.

LIE #1

Shes 29, 2 years older than he is

4 days after my unplanned C-section and having fluid in my legs down to my toes along with being covered in a PUPPS rash (pregnancy rash) he asks for a blow job

4 Days!!

He then proceeds to ask for another 2 days later. Mind you I'm breast feeding every two hours at this point and not sleeping more than an hour or so a day.

Then he starts asking more and wanting to have sex before we were supposed to and honestly, our child was on my mind and making sure she was taken care of.

Fast forward to the new girl. He keeps bringing her up. Tells me she likes how I do my makeup and wants me to teach her. I asked how she knew how I do my makeup, he says she looked me up on fb and asked if I was his wife. (Clearly stated on my fb page)

So I look her up, surprise...not old. And blonde...his type. Married with 2 kids.

He continues to ask for sexual favors and I tell him it's not the first thing on my mind and he starts saying I make him feel lonely and that I dont care about him anymore since having our daughter.

He continues to bring up the HR person. Even shows me her fb page out of the blue.

Tells me her husband is a "prick that works at a bank" later he tells me those are his words, not hers and that hes assuming by the guys picture that hes a prick/goody two shoes (sounds jealous,right?) Hes also mentioned he thinks I'd like her.

He tries to make me feel like I'm a crazy jealous person. We had a family GPS app on our phone which he deleted over a separate argument (trying to buy a house but hes back and forth on it...I'm starting to see why) he used to work on the road and that's how I could see he made it okay. But I also use it when I cant get ahold of him.

We get into another house related argument, he tells me to go to my parents after things simmered down. Insisted, maybe we just need some time apart. Mind you, I take care of our daughter all the time. Little help from him. So he didnt even say goodbye to her. I felt like he had plans. So I look on snap chat, turns out,he did. He was at the bar (location was on)

Had a recent fight where the HR person was brought up because hes been messaging her outside of work. I made the comment it was unprofessional and eventually I was a crazy jealous person again.and he cant talk to any females. Then he proceeds to say during our argument.."Shes married, I'm married. You dont trust me, you think in gonna find something better and just dip out? Dont you? You dont think I havent seen girls hotter than you out there? I'm not here because I have to be. I choose to be here." And then acts like I've completely shocked him and needs time alone.

So tonight, I have a dream I see a conversation on his phone between them. It's not good and I call him out. He doesnt care. Acts like it's not a big deal. I woke up and couldn't stop thinking about it. So, I looked at his phone and remember the thing I said about blondes being his type?

Looks work related to me.... if flirting is work related

Sorry for the long post I'm just so beside myself and its 4 in the morning and I needed to get it off my chest. I think I'll pay them a visit tomorrow at work for his lunch. See how he reacts. How she reacts.

Update : I found out one of my clients was dating this person's brother. Turns out shes a stuck up bitch. She also enjoys starting problems and enjoys drama. She rubs her husband's money in everyone's face and just built a 300k home. Has a boob job and likes to post pictures of herself in a bra on snapchat. And shes a flirt.( Not my words )

So, I'm guessing she is enjoying the work drama, since my husband runs to her everytime he gets mad at his manager. So she feeds into what he tells her and she likes flirting with him. If I find out shes on his snap chat, it's on.

Regardless of her, my husband is in the wrong. I'm very disappointed in how hes treated our marriage, weve been together 7 years...but above all our daughter. He thinks because he supports her financially hes done his job. He told me to take a few years off when I had her because I was working for myself and wanted to be able to raise her and not miss out. So if I would report it to his work, which I really want to do, theres a chance he could also lose his job. Which means no insurance for my daughter.

I dont know if anymore has happened other than the flirting, however, to me that's cheating. At least the beginning anyways.

Update...I wanted to be wrong.😥 theres another one.

I packed my daughter and I, the dog and cat up, with the help of my parents and sent some of these in a group message to his mother, him, and the two women. He calls and repeatedly says that it's all jokingly and that they're just talking. And "pics" means "hugs"

He and his mom keep calling me. No word from the other two. He wont even admit hes wrong. Just keeps saying he realizes how I see it and that hes sorry and that it's just joking to him

Okay....