We are pregnant with our first baby (girl), due May 23rd. It is my wish to labor at home as long as possible before heading to the hospital and avoid an epidural. I’d really like to have the most natural birth possible but am not 100% against anything.

It will be my husband, mom and doula in the room. My mom and mother in law both had 4 c-sections between them. My mother has repeatedly said about vaginal birth, “better you than me!” and changed the subject when I talk about labor positions/birth balls/hypnobirthing etc. Today in the car I was explaining my wishes to her and my grandma, and she said “Honey, you’re going to be in so much pain you’ll be begging for an epidural” and they high fived.

I got so upset, so I said “if you can’t be supportive, you can just sit in the lobby next to the vending machine while i give birth” 😂 Do you not think I’m scared about doing this in 7 weeks? I’ve never done this before nor am I claiming to know what I’m in for - I just need to be supported by someone who respects my wishes and can advocate for me. Not make fun of the process and tell me how much pain I’m in for 🙄 She apologized profusely of course.

Anyone else in a similar situation?