I feel all I’ve done is vent about my husband but he is getting on my nerves lately.

He has a bit of a drinking problem but is unfortunately very functional when he drinks. Last weekend he went through 2 12 packs (bottles, not cans) in 2 days, plus buying some of the single bottles you get at the gas station.

I brought up last night that his drinking was getting excessive and concerning and of course he tries to laugh it off as a joke. And of course he turns it back on me - apparently it’s hypocritical of me to call him out when I haven’t gone to a counselor like he said (I have depression and anxiety which I’m managing well without medication or counseling but he thinks I need to go - I am planning on bringing my history up at my next OB appointment in case I get hit with PPD). He then tells me he’s not going to have conversations about anything important with me until I go see a counselor and then adds like an afterthought that he’ll deal with the drinking thing.

This has happened before where I’ve brought up a concern (he has an easily addicted personality) and he’ll try to brush it off as nothing and turn it back around on me. I’m not perfect and going to see a counselor will probably be beneficial for me, but I feel like him bringing that up was just him being defensive about being called out. Idk anymore

EDIT TO ADD: I am 34 weeks